Why do some people resist healing?

That’s a question I’ve been asked numerous times. And the first thing I tell them is everyones different and everyone has different goals. For some healing is their goal. For some it’s happiness. And sometimes it’s peace of mind. Having a different goal adjusts priorities. Not prioritizing healing may look like resistance to some when actually its just not the first thing on that persons list.

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But then there are others who truly are resistant. Fearful even of what moving on may look like. Moving on can mean alot of things. And with healing comes a slightly different you. Which is scary.

When you’re healing from a traumatic experience some survival modes kick on. If on long enough alot of your personality is built on your personal survival tactics. So it’s a part of who you are. In order to heal those parts of you will change, will grow into a healthier self view and/or a healthier view of others. But that means giving up some parts of you that you’re used to. Parts of you that others are use to. And even parts of you that you’re proud of.

So then they may think. What if I don’t like the new me? Well the goid news is we humans are good at overcomming our instincs and natures. We’re good at making our own self image and bettering ourselves. The first thoughts you may have on a topic is your default setting. But you can decide, no I’m not going to think like that. And if you do that often enough your default will change. You’ll be one step closer to becoming who you want to be.

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20 thoughts on “Why do some people resist healing?”

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    But if you don’t mind me asking – after someone like me stumbles across rinashelp.blog, what usually happens?

    Is your site generating leads for your business?

    I’m guessing some, but I also bet you’d like more… studies show that 7 out 10 who land on a site wind up leaving without a trace.

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    My name’s Eric, and I just found your site – rinashelp.blog – while surfing the net. You showed up at the top of the search results, so I checked you out. Looks like what you’re doing is pretty cool.

    But if you don’t mind me asking – after someone like me stumbles across rinashelp.blog, what usually happens?

    Is your site generating leads for your business?

    I’m guessing some, but I also bet you’d like more… studies show that 7 out 10 who land on a site wind up leaving without a trace.

    Not good.

    Here’s a thought – what if there was an easy way for every visitor to “raise their hand” to get a phone call from you INSTANTLY… the second they hit your site and said, “call me now.”

    You can –

    Talk With Web Visitor is a software widget that’s works on your site, ready to capture any visitor’s Name, Email address and Phone Number. It lets you know IMMEDIATELY – so that you can talk to that lead while they’re literally looking over your site.

    CLICK HERE http://www.talkwithwebvisitor.com to try out a Live Demo with Talk With Web Visitor now to see exactly how it works.

    Time is money when it comes to connecting with leads – the difference between contacting someone within 5 minutes versus 30 minutes later can be huge – like 100 times better!

    That’s why we built out our new SMS Text With Lead feature… because once you’ve captured the visitor’s phone number, you can automatically start a text message (SMS) conversation.

    Think about the possibilities – even if you don’t close a deal then and there, you can follow up with text messages for new offers, content links, even just “how you doing?” notes to build a relationship.

    Wouldn’t that be cool?

    CLICK HERE http://www.talkwithwebvisitor.com to discover what Talk With Web Visitor can do for your business.

    You could be converting up to 100X more leads today!
    Eric

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